You like a guy but you can’t seem to get over his ex! What’s going on here!? He’s not even with the girl, but he just won’t commit to you like he should because of this girl! How do you make him love you instead? How do you get him to get over her?
Read on to find out how to get over your ex…
Tip #1: Get him over his ex by making himself better than his ex!
Find out what he found so attractive about this girl in the first place. Trust me, it’s not just looks. Many men look at personality… as things like emotional maturity, independence, etc…
Is this girl established or is she an emotional wreck? She will see, if she is very established (she works, she has a lot to do), then she should try to do the same thing, only on a larger scale. Achieve your goals outside of this man, and this will show him that you are a high-class woman, and he will make him feel attracted to you, since it will show him that you are not too needy or attached to men.
If the girl is an emotional wreck, understand that it was probably her project. Some people like to help others feel better about themselves, and maybe he feels guilty or hurt that this girl is still an emotional mess, and you can help him get over that fact by explaining it to him, and also by staying in control and emotionally strong to the. This will help you get over his ex.
Tip #2: Get him over his ex by making him jealous!
He begins to flirt with some of his male classmates. This will spark jealousy and instantly make him think of you! You see, when he notices that other people are interested in you, and when he notices that you show interest in others… he will immediately feel that he is going to lose you, and now all his concentration will be solely on you.
This is because it feels like rejection when a man sees a woman flirting with another man. He instantly feels inadequate and like he needs to step up his game now, because he gave her ego a cheap shot by making him jealous.
Then you will work to get your attention and you will work to have him around now. This is the fastest and easiest way to get over your ex.
Also remember that since jealousy triggers attraction, you should never remind him if his ex is dating someone else, in an effort to show that he should move on. For example, you tell her that her ex is simply promiscuous because she dates other men and dates a lot of people.
That would be an obvious mistake, because then he would be very jealous and would be constantly thinking about her with other men now as a result… so as a piece of advice, never mention his ex in comparison to you.