What are the things a guy needs to be satisfied in bed? Compared to women, men are generally not good at expressing themselves, especially about what they want from their partners. So, as a man, I will share with the readers here the desires of men and how to satisfy their needs.
(1) A girl who can hug herself first
Although a man will try ways and means to turn a girl on, he will prefer her to be turned on first. It will also be a mutually pleasurable sexual experience, if a woman can do a little ‘warming up’ on her own to get into a sexual state of mind.
You can do the things you do during masturbation to orgasm. She can also get involved in sexual fantasies to let her mind wonder in ‘Erotica Land’.
(2) A girl who is able to laugh when things don’t work out sometimes.
Sometimes sex may not be easy and certain new positions don’t work for her. If a girl is not able to overcome this disappointment, it can damage her mood. However, if you can both work through this and don’t take things too seriously, this can increase sexual intimacy. You both need to be able to treat the occasional mishap as a kind of learning experience to better understand each other’s needs.
(3) A girl who can tell him what he wants.
When it comes to pleasing a woman, a guy wishes his girl could guide him on how she likes to be stimulated to get turned on. When he’s doing the right move that turns her on, he’ll prefer it if she offers positive feedback, like making some noises or movements or even saying something to indicate her pleasure.
(4) Visual stimulation can easily wake up a guy
A man can easily ‘get hard’ to his credit simply by looking at women’s breasts or by watching sexual acts. When having sex, she can set up a mirror so that he can see the whole process of lovemaking in action. Another way to turn a guy on with your eyes is to seduce him. Personally, I find half-naked girls or girls who dress in a way that doesn’t reveal everything more seductive than totally naked women. By not showing everything, this can give a guy some room for imagination, which can be quite exciting.
(5) A naughty girl in bed.
In front of everyone, a guy wants his girl to behave. But when she’s alone with him, a guy really wants her girl to misbehave, act like a porn star, and do some naughty acts in the bedroom. Most men really dislike it when their women just lie there doing nothing, quietly through the entire sex act, even hearing the sound of mosquitoes flying by. A guy can get turned on if he sees that his girl enjoys making love to him. She can turn up the temperature in the bedroom by doing something unexpected, like initiating a new position, a new way to stimulate him, a new place to have intercourse or to initiate sex.
(6) A girl who is willing to take charge in bed.
Sometimes a guy would much prefer his girl to be able to take control instead of him trying to do all the “hard work” all the time. Laying back while his girl does all the naughty things, goes wild, or gets completely carried away to reveal the unknown horny side of her is every man’s ultimate fantasy.