Let’s get straight to the point. You want to know how to get a girl’s phone number. Maybe there’s even a particular girl you’ve been hanging on for a while, but you don’t want to spoil it, or maybe you just want to approach random women at the mall or grocery store. Trust me, I struggled with what to say to a woman in the initial approach for years, but getting her number can be the easiest part when you know what to do. My life changed for the first time in that sense when I came across the advice of the great David DeAngelo.
In this article I am going to tell you about such a powerful technique that has allowed me to get so many girl numbers that I was never able to call most of them.
Before I tell you the technique, you first need to understand that getting a phone number is not necessarily all that it sounds like. Even if you get a girl’s phone number, it may be of no use to you if you don’t know the right way to communicate and create an instant attraction with her. In fact, there are tricks that are much more powerful than the topic of the article, and I’ll tell you how you can get hold of some of them a little later.
There are two goals to consider when trying to get a girl’s phone number.
One of them is that you have to appear different from the many guys who approach her all the time. The other is that you should make it as comfortable as possible. Men can be very threatening and creepy to women, so her giving you her personal information implies that she feels comfortable. This is not as difficult as you might think.
The first step is to approach women very calmly, calmly and with composure. Nervousness repels women like garlic. If you have confidence issues with women, be sure to check out the resource at the end of my article.
Once you’ve zoomed in, start the conversation by slyly observing your surroundings and making a joke about something she’s doing or something around her. Again, if you need help figuring out exactly what to say when approaching a woman, I’ll give it to you at the end of the article, but for now I want to stick to the issue at hand.
Try to keep the conversation going for a few minutes, it indicates that you have to go. Letting him know that you have something to do is very important, because it sets you apart from most guys who will stick with a girl like he’s glued to her and force her to be the one to end the conversation. If you finish it first, she will wonder about you for the rest of the day.
As you prepare to leave, tell her it was a pleasure meeting her and then, almost like an afterthought, turn around and ask her very calmly if she has an email.
I know what you want is her phone number, not just email, but trust me, this works, period.
Everyone has email these days and almost everyone is very comfortable distributing it. That’s where psychology comes in. Give him the pen to write his email (bonus tip: buy a really cool pen that grabs his attention and starts chatting) and as he writes it, ask him to write down his number as well.
This works instantly about 8 out of 10 times, because a woman who is already giving you her email will generally not hesitate to include her phone number as well. If you had asked her for the phone number right away, she would have been less comfortable giving it to her.
If it doesn’t work instantly, then reassure her that it will be fine, because she will only call her 30,000 times (this is a joke and it will put her at ease). Usually he will give it to you afterwards without hesitation a second longer.