How many times have you heard the phrase “women are NOT attracted to nice guys”? If you’re anything like me, then you’ve probably heard the phrase one too many times.
Unfortunately, most guys will misunderstand the meaning of this concept and confuse it with “If you want to turn a friend into a girlfriend, then you need to stop acting like Mr. Nice and start acting like a jerk to her.”
If that’s you, then immediately stop thinking – that’s NOT what it means, and acting like a jerk will probably increase your chances of FAILING to turn that friendship into something more!
Instead of acting like a jerk, the solution is simple. Wrap your head around the concept of, “Stop acting like a coward and start acting like a man.”
You CAN make a girlfriend into a girlfriend without being a jerk if you learn what it means to act like a man. Men know how to arouse a woman. They lead interesting lives and the woman is more than happy to share that life with him because she brings excitement to her own life. Wimps, on the other hand, revolve their entire lives around women; in other words, their own lives are sad and boring if the woman is not around to make it interesting for them.
Men know how to make a woman feel special too, but only at select moments. They have a way of making a woman feel rewarded every time she does something nice or special for him. Meanwhile, the wimps worship the ground the woman walks on and do whatever it takes to make her feel like she’s the most beautiful and special girl that ever lived, all the time. While the attention is great at first, over time it becomes artificial; and worst of all, boring. It stops being effective after a certain amount of time.
If you want to know how to turn a friend into a girlfriend, you don’t have to be mean and act like a jerk at all. A man can generate the same kind of attraction as a jerk without treating her like crap in the first place. Men enjoy more long-term success with women, and are generally more fun to be with than jerks anyway.