You have a wonderful sex life and you are both very open-minded. They have both done almost everything and are actually going to venture down another path. You are looking for more sexual ideas and nothing is forbidden. The best way to start is to talk to your partner and ask what they would like to try. Here are some ideas to get you started.
(1) Use sex toys
Clothespins are wonderful toys. They can be attached to any part of the body (for example, on the nipples) and the sensation is quite intense. The longer they are on, the more intense the sensation will be when removing them. You can clip the clothespins on the nipples or anywhere along the breasts; along the dies, arms, legs and thighs and just about anywhere else you can imagine. For a more intense feel, plastic clothespins will work better than wooden ones, and small clothespins will have a sharper “bite” than large clothespins.
You can also use a pair of chopsticks and a pair of rubber bands to make makeshift clothespins. Place the chopsticks above and below the nipples, or along each side of the clitoris and secure with an elastic band at the ends.
Ordinary dental floss is great nipple bondage. Tie a slipknot in a piece of dental floss and pull it snugly over your nipples.
The multi-spell brushes are great on bare skin, especially when you’re blindfolded. For example, a soft brush like a shaving or makeup brush can be alternated with a stiff brush like a toothbrush on the breasts, nipples, thighs, sides, etc. An electric toothbrush is a wonderful sex toy when used on the clitoris.
Ice is a great all-purpose sex toy that can be used in a number of different ways. You can run an ice cube over her body, especially when she is blindfolded or tied up; or place an ice cube in your mouth and run your lips and tongue over your body.
Feather is also a great way to turn her on. It can be any type of feather, but I highly recommend buying feather products from a craft store, not a sex shop, because those real bird feathers you find on the ground can contain parasites and germs. A peacock feather is common because the end is round and blunt. First you blindfold him and you can tie him up if you want. You run the feather over her body and apply a bit of tickle torture. The premise of tickle torture is that she fights you but she can’t stop herself from being tickled and she can’t even scratch her itch because she’s being tied up.
(2) Use light bondage
If you want to explore bondage, the easiest way to do it is with a simple old cotton or nylon rope. Nylon stockings and silk scarves can cause problems because they tend to bunch up and become difficult to untie. When experimenting with bondage, it’s always a good idea to have a plan to untie your partner quickly if necessary. A good tip is to keep a pair of bondage scissors handy, which you can get inexpensively at most drug stores.
You can tie your partner to the bed, to a chair, or just tie their hands behind their back. Once you have her tied up, you can kneel over her and tell her to perform oral sex on you, or you can penetrate her. Or, you can try sensation play, such as running your hands or ice cubes or makeshift sex toys all over her body. Blindfolding can make these feelings more intense. You can add some light pain play to the mix by pinching, pulling, or twisting your nipples. Biting or teasing her with your tongue or fingers can also be a lot of fun.
For introductory pain play, spanking, pinching, and biting can be good ways to start. You can lean it across your lap, or for a bit more fun, you can tie it leaning across the bed. You can combine this with role playing. You will act like the teacher who disciplines a naughty student. You can whip it with your hands, a paddle, or even a wooden spoon. Start with light and fast movements and gradually you can get those endorphins (pleasure related hormones) which is exciting and intoxicating.