There are hundreds of reasons why another woman’s husband should be off limits, yet women target married men all the time, and some even choose a friend’s husband or partner. The friend’s fondness for her man rarely seems to discourage the predator, once she’s in hot pursuit.
At the beginning of such affairs there is usually a period in which the woman tries to convince herself and sometimes her friends that the man is not happily married (which makes everything okay in her opinion) or that your partner is somehow unworthy of you continuing. fidelity. This forensic analysis is likely to take place after the first attempt at flirting and after the woman has already decided that she wants an affair with the man. Those who support these views will likely be the woman’s confidantes throughout the whole thing, much to her lecherous own satisfaction.
From there, the deceit and lies begin, with all the complications that such conduct entails. The lies and behavioral traits that characterize such matters have not changed for centuries, yet the female of the species must be somewhat slow, as we still don’t catch on early enough to avoid disaster.
The main obstacle from the wife’s point of view is, of course, her trust in her husband or partner. This confidence is what keeps him from suspiciously rummaging through pockets for restaurant and motel receipts and checking her husband’s phone for revealing text messages. If her husband tells her he’s working late, then why the hell shouldn’t she believe him? If her work takes him too far away, then it’s even easier for an affair to blossom happily under the wife’s nose.
When affairs are so easy to get away with, people are surprised that the wife usually finds out about them eventually. The reason for this is that her lover wants her wife to know, but she can’t risk the boyfriend finding her cruel enough to expose her infidelity to her wife and the rest of the universe. Or because both she and the boyfriend are tired of the existence in a corner that is necessary to continue the secret and have discovered that they are MFE (made for each other). Or sometimes the bosom friend who supported the mistress through this sorry mess now decides things aren’t exciting enough and leaks information to the wife to liven things up a bit, while reassuring herself that he’s acting in “everyone’s best interest” and being a sleazy little creature anyway, he has no difficulty making sure he’s “doing the right thing.”
The consequences that occur after such relationships come to light are agonizing for everyone; the husband, the lover, the unfortunate wife and of course the children. The only person who really benefits from all the angst is the vulgar, voyeuristic friend; that he walks away with a smile until the next time someone feels the need to trust.